Yeah 3 times per night got to be a bit much for me! Now, with our whole weird sitch, when I'm here it's been usually once per night, but even up to twice. It's never discussed after the fact though.
From experience I would REALLY recommend not trying at all with your H at the moment, but instead trying to find ways to reduce any pressure by just seeming as confident and happy as possible, as this will make him feel more relaxed about his own internal pressure. I feel like I'm writing about a different person now, as I would kill for that to be my issue rather than what is actually going on, but I remember how painful it was. Anything I tried like wearing lingerie made no impact whatsoever. The only times that things seemed to be OK was when I didn't mention it or to allude to it for awhile, and we were just relaxed.
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
