It's hard to respond to that...I'm sure plenty of WAWs think like that...it just sounds weird reading it so calculated. I hate reading stuff like that because then I start thinking, "what if my wife is just like that...getting what she can, putting in her time, and planning how she'll get whatever from me". It's dishonest, and how does that make it better than what he did to you by having an affair...he was just getting something he needed also.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
