Sorry that things are a little rougher than you would like. Great sign that he saw a therapist and that the issue is time rather than the relationship in general.
It also seems good that you were finally able to express your feelings to him. I know the work never ends, but at least you are in a place where you CAN share your feelings even if you still need to be predominantly focused on his feelings for the moment.
I guess each sitch is different. Interesting that ML hasn't happened very often but you are still for all intents and purposes living together. In my sitch H wants to ML all the time, but is more worried about the living together sitch. At least you have the security. I think you are doing REALLY well!!! Don't they say 1 month of work for every year of marriage? If this is accurate, then you've only got a couple of months left :).
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
