Pisces!! Wow you are still my and I'm sure others inspiration here. I'm glad that things are still moving forward..slowly but forward. Your H decided on his own to go to IC so that is remarkable!!
You are right PMA, GAL and Acting 'As-If' are the best methods to get through this no matter what stage we are in!! I think the secret to it it is combining all three no matter what even once we are back on track with our M!!