I am glad you are feeling better. I understand what you mean about the hormones. I always used to think that hormones didn't really effect me but I am starting to believe that they do. I have been a little more emotional the last couple of days.
Are you and your H talking about relationship stuff outside of C? C should be helping you and your H have healthy discussions outside of C. Do you think it would help if you made a list of things you wanted to discuss in C so you don't spend your time talking about minutia?
Let me know if you get anything out of the 5 LL's. I bought the book and loaned it to a friend before I read the whole thing. I never got it back. I was thinking about getting another copy...but then again, the way I feeling a the moment, there is no reason.