BTW, this is just an observation I made today that worried me a little. Mike, I have not found a lot of men in "Real Life" that I joke with/tease like I do the guys on here.
I know what you're saying here.
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This morning on the stairwell at D's daycare, there was a Dad I run into a lot. He and I exchanged some harmless jokes/words this morning, as we have in the past. For some reason, a little light went on in the back of my brain. I thought, "This is how it can happen. A person can be so lonely for the warm, friendly, welcoming contact, that when they get it from someone, they want more of it, even if that person isn't their spouse."
yep, you are correct..see, I will speak from my experience.. I never found myself attractive. I had people tell me I was handsome but never believed it. I always just thought of myself as plain. Now, If I just happened to be bringing Caleigh into your school..and we just happened to start joking, talking daily..harmless stuff..well my PMA would probably soar...me being married and another woman paying attention to me...Yep..it would have soared..so yes.. I can see how that could/does happen. I think it's great you had this light bulb moment and are very aware about how it could happen.
It's why I avoided women like the plague while I was married..I wanted to make sure nothing ever happened and I was never temepted..yes,,I did look but I never acted. It's not in me to do that..I would pass a woman on the street, my eyes would be down..no hello's, no nothing...
