Hi NC, Sorry, but I had to chuckle a little when I read about your son. You are right, the older ones are good at instigating!
I remember when youngest DD was around 3 or 4 and my older DD was around 6 or 7 and she taught her sister how to "moon". Oldest DD had been mooned by neighbor boy next door who was about 10. Yes, it's a vicious cycle. Anyway, MIL was over visiting one night and the television was on. Youngest DD goes and stands in front of the television and proceeds to "moon" us all. I could have died!
So as you can see I'm not a good one to give advice about a little one! LOL
Have a great weekend with your boys!
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