Yesterday my W was suppose to pick our D up after school because she was having play practice and I had my C appointment. She left work early and waited for half and hour and then found out that play practice was canceled. She called me all upset and said she was taking our D computer away when she got home for being so inconsiderate for not calling. I agreed with her and when she said she does alot for our kids I said I agree and undrstand why you are angry at her.
When I got home my W was watching tv and our D was upstairs. My W said she is mad at me and did not eat dinner. I went and asked her if she wanted anything and she said no. I was like fine with me I'm hungry and went and ate. My W and I talked for a little bit and then she went to the movies with our D, I was going to question this but I had not part in this decission.
My W calls me from the theater that she got sick because of the way the movie was shot. It was "Quarantine" and the camera was constanty bouncing around and she gets a little motion sickness. I asked if she wanted me to come to the theater to pick our D up after the move so she could come home but she said no. I asked about three times throughout the conversation and she said no each time. When they got home I had a glass of GingerAle waithing for her with chipped ice and two Advil for her headache. She thanked me and I asked how she was feeling and then I went to bed.
She did say on Tuesday that she does not know why she has been so bitchy lately. I said nothing but was thinking its because you are starting to put your foot down and be the mean person instead of me all the time or maybe you need LAID!!
Thats about all for now. C was all about me and how I need to not get frustrated and how long do I continue to do all the work and how long do I wait for my W to say or show that she is recommeted to the R/M. Its hard for the C to know because she only knows my side of the story and she agrees that together we could learn how to communicate better and resolve some of these issues that got us to this point. But until then I can just do the best that I can.
