Have you thought about writing a letter? Is that a dobson thing (I am always asking this!).. that you wish her well, sorry for your part in things and sorry it hadnt worked out.. I dont know, whatever you want to say, from the heart, now that you seem to have stopped DBing and accepted it as over?
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread