I'm glad you have a friend to take you out tonight. I know my friends (and this BB) have been a lifeline for me. I dont think I could have moved on and GAL without them and all of you.
Not that it is final, I hope you can move on from the limbo ride. It is going to take time to re-adjust your image of yourself...you are no longer a wife but a divorcee. And you know what, that is ok. As I was talking to my friends last night they kept telling me stories of their friends or family members who moved on from a divorce into a much better R. That they all survived and came out of the battle in a much better position. There were stories of WAS who left for the AP as well, and things did not turn out well for them. I hold onto those stories. It gives me strength to know that I did all I could and will get the loving relationship I want one day. It also gives me hope that one day STBXH will be accountable for his actions. Even if he never is, right now feeling like he will be helps me to move on.
You handled your D graciously and wonderfully. You are my hero and I hope I can be as strong as you when my day comes. (((HUGS)))
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
