Anyway this morning H comes in at 6 a.m. sharp, all dressed for work, and kisses me goodbye. WTF? Again, he either does not remember last night or he is pretending it never happened....Either is possible, I could smell alcohol on his breath when he came in so if they had much to drink he may have crashed and been out of it once he fell asleep the first time...
I am super annoyed b/c I can either continue to ignore the whole thing where I am at the bottom of the list, or I can raise the issue, which always falls on me to do, and we can have another "talk session" which I am not in the mood for. Can someone hit the fast forward button to where I get to have fun with my H again???????????
What would "Do something different" look like in this situation? I have tried ignore and go with the flow which seems to affirm his NOT spending time with me. I have tried raise the issue and talk which leads to, well, talk, and not change....
Christ on a pony..wake up brother.. he's pissing me off and I'm not there. I can imagine how frustrated you are. I feel for you. He's avoiding it all at the moment..hoping you won't say anything.
I say set up a date night..as suggested..then have him pull his calender out and pencil it in..If he breaks the date night with some bullchitt excuse then I would think you'll have to come up with a solution for this problem
