Another one bites the dust (2)

[No Longer BH]

Once again I had a wonderful night last night. My STBXH showed up at 6:30 instead of the 6pm that he was suppose to be here. I just smiled and said hi, then left. I did not have plans until 8pm so went next door and had a glass of wine with my neighbor. We laughed and had some good goosip time. After I left I went and picked up my other friend. We went to this really nice resturaunt and had a great time together. She always makes me smile as well. Whenever I go out I am always home by 10. Well, last night time got away from me and I got home at 10:20 instead. When I walked in the door I said "Oh, sorry I'm late." He had his stuff all packed up and ready to go and had a pissed off look on his face. In his grouchy voice he said "Next time you need to call." then stormed out the door.

I just stood there with a big smile on my face because for the first time I did not give a flying f!ck what he thought of me or that he was even mad. All I kept thinking was how many times were you late with me and I did not get a phone call. Must suck to get a taste of your own medicine. Then I check my email and I get this message:

I just wanted to clarify what I was asking for. (Um, he never asked for anything, just stormed out)

I have no problem staying later than 10 if you're running late I would just like a call letting me know you are running late.

While I don't normally have any place to be, tonight I have to go back to the office and needed to communicate when with several people. (personally I think this is BS because he never said anything to me about it)

Thank you and hope you had a great night.

Gotta love all his peaceful harmony he keeps sending my way. I mean, he hopes I had a great night yet storms out the door all pissed off. Again, I just had to smile really big because he is such a faker. He left a book on my desk for me to read : Everyday Blessings, The Inner Work of Mindful Parenting. Maybe he wants me to mindfully parent him? After all he is acting like a teenager right now.

Hope everyone is doing well.