First, I want to let everyone know that I talked with my husband last night. I told him that I knew of his efforts to have a revenge affair. Long story short, we both see things from each other's perspectives. We committed verbally, for the first time, to working toward reconciliation. In the past, it had only been me verbally showing that I wanted to R so this is huge! Thank you to everyone who encouraged me to speak up! And to AllW8SBF -- thanks for your reply too! I plan on getting a striptease video now! Also, I just read a book that was incredible! It's called "The Self-Confident Wife" -- I wish I had read this when I got engaged and I will buy this book for all future brides that I run into -- well, that I know enough to buy them a book Have a great weekend everyone! LL
