I am totally accepting that I dont know..I will always have a small glimmer of home..but keep working towards surviving.
The communication right now is limited, if any. And, when we text, he said he will never put anything in writing again because I will use it against him. Thats my punishment for telling OW the truth.
I know he loves me. He is so filled with anger towards me. He really takes no responsibility for the affair. He actually blames it all on me for not being sexual enough.
He is so not ready to be done with his relationship with her. Yes, it hurts alot.
He will truely be the one to suffer in the end... giving up a loving wife and family.
Sandy--that's what they all say. Truly it is. They seem to believe that absolves them of all guilt--blaming the wife for not meeting his needs, so he just had to go and meet them elsewhere. Just part of the script, just part of the process. Just be aware it's not personal.
And you're right. He will be the one to suffer in the end. It may take a long time, but at some point he'll realize the mistake he made.
Of course, I'm talking to myself as well.
Last edited by hoosiermama; 10/17/0801:42 PM.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
