Hope4us struggle, part 9 or 10 or whatever

[Hope4us]

Hi everyone. Thought I would post one more time before leaving. W pulled another act of transparency last night. She was on her way home from work and thought she had a problem with a tire on her car and stopped to check it out. She called me to let me know why she was running late.

Last night we BOTH worked on cleaning the house. WE tag teamed everything that needed to be done. And there were a few more comments that COUPLES make. Just little things that to normal people mean nothing, but to people in situations like we face on this board mean EVERYTHING.

And then this morning. I'm off today, but W is working. She came downstairs after getting ready and we talked like a couple facing a normal day.

I don't know, until she puts her rings back on I'll never feel comfortable, and even with that, I'm not sure how long it will take, but these last 3 weeks have just been really good. Of course, I could be the biggest stup in history and she's just crusin along planning her exit, but I just don't think so.

One question I've been thinking and I wanted some opinions, W will sleep in bed with me when we go out of town. In June we went away for a weekend and she did. In Aug we went to Florida for 10 nights and she did. In Sept we went out of town for a weekend and she did. She's already made comments about the bed on our trip next week. So why won't she sleep in bed with me at home? Does she feel that will normalize our relationship? Did she share our bed with OM at some point and she can't sleep in it because she feels she violated our bed and can't bring herself to do that?

Ok, I'll talk to everyone in a week. Take care.