Just got an email from h - probably nothing to read into but here is my baby step list
1. he initiated an email - this is possibly a first. 2. He is taking some responsibility for the house i.e. opening post - also something he hasn't done since he left. 3. there was no particular need for him to send me those things - maybe he is thinking about me, or he just came across some old post... 4. He is 'giving me responsibility' without fear of me being controlling or whatever his fear before was that meant he wouldn't talk about house stuff.
Hmmm... or negative, he is passing responsibility to me? I can't send from my work email, only receive so I can't respond till Monday unless I reply from my personal account to say I've received it. However 180 for me would probably be to ignore it and 'concentrate on work' as he does to me or is that encouraging bad behaviour, or me being mean, or is it showing him I have other stuff in my life now. Hmmmm, am I over-analysing
Here is the email Hi - I was going through some unopened post I found in a drawer last night and I found a new TV licence and home insurance policy for the house. They're in my name but I thought they would be better in your hands so I've put them in the post to you. Hope you have a great time in (at my conference). H.
I'm not over excited or anything, just a little shocked. I think I am making some baby steps in the safety thing.
