But H is firm in his dialoguing, he wants to do it just like they teach us. If I make any superfluous comments while exchanging notebooks he gets bent out of shape. If I comment in any way on what he writes, that he could see as a judgement, he is annoyed. He wants to just read each others, re-state each others, make sure we get each other, and that's it.
Structure...I get that. I know that. He sees very little gray. It's all black and white. He has certain things he needs to accomplish during his day and if it's on his scehdule to accomplish and he gets it done then he is ok..If he does not then I bet he gets pissed..He stays really stressed which in turn causes you great stress..he also uses some of this "personality" type to avoid things..he's using it to avoid the homework..you can tell by his "you read mine, I read yours, restate, get it, that's it..lets get this finished attitude".
I wish I had some advice to give you..I know for a fact the only way he will change anything is if he changes for himself. It's not going to be for you, the family, his M..it will have to be because he finally realizes he's an asss.....
