Hey Woog..

Wow, I loved what you wrote and apart from the bit about regrets, it mirrored how I feel exactly..it was a year ago for me too and I also had some pretty dark days after the bomb like you said. We also never fought ever or went to bed angry and we didnt have bad days right up until he left. I too feel like a better, more patient, giving person as a result of all of this and I wouldnt want to go back to how I was before.

I am still struggling with moving on, like you have and I applaud you for that, especially as you were together double my R and you have kids. You sound like you have learnt so much, which is the lesson of Saturn for all of us Pisceans! You, me, Kalni, we've all learnt sooo much, grown up, opened up and arrived at slightly different points through the pain of our partners leaving us.

Thanks for your post
Ali xxx



Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
my thread