How to move foreward...

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I just want to kick in a little thought here...not much...

Perhaps what you should try to accept is that you just don't know what is going to happen with your R, not that it is absolutely over, not that it is on the way to reconcilliation.

I think that it is harder to accept that we are in a bit of limbo. It makes us feel weak and vulnerable.

I know a WAS will waver and circumstances will change over the next months, etc. It is hard keeping the door open to the possibility of reconciliation, it hurts. We just want to be over the pain of rejection.

I for one will give my W at least to the end of our seperation and the signing of Divorce papers, if she sends them. Who knows after that ? One day at a time for me.