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[hope3343]

Hi T2L, loved your post. First send us the text so we can all forward to our Hs! Might help.
Your right, if that opportunity comes with H, I think we would all grab it with gusto. lol. I think of all the times I said no and now that he is not here, I think about will I ever have an opportunity again??

I agree with the idea if you get a chance you will go for it and then tell the OW when you go dark...great.

We get great advice from this board. If I did not have this board, I think I would have blown up, not be speaking to H, hating him and at the atty. I know realize I have time. I still might end up in that atty's office but I am not going down without a battle -- In a DB way of course.

I spend 25 minutes on the phone with H tonight. He is sick as a dog. I asked if he needed orange juice, medicine anything. I reminded him how sick I was with the flu 2 weeks ago that I could not get out of bed and was dizzy. I did not remind him that when i was at my worst he was away overnight with the OW, but I am sure he remembered it and here I was offering to help him.

The amazing thing, I know it is habit but when H goes to say goodbye or even in conversation he calls me "Honey" or goodbye "hon"... okkkkkk not too frustrating.

Well I am off to continue reading "surviving an affair"...good recommendation by T2L. It makes sense. I plan on using a combination of DB and this book.

Pray for each other. I do know for our M to thrive is that God needs to be part of it. Oherwise I know it will not survive.

Take care, all

T2L, good luck at the pumpkin patch
Twin hope - hope you are doing well.
Marisol, your post gave me hope that our H's can be attracted to us again
TxMom, know you are having a difficult time but the last few days have been better for me..I KNOW they will get better for you
JGrind, Don't beat yourself up. Kids will drive you crazy and compounded with being on your own -- we are human. Tomorrow will be brighter.