{{{{{JGrind}}}}}} I am sooo sorry -- I feel your pain in this. It really snowballed. First D11 - has she gotten her period yet? It could be hormonal? My D got her period at 10. That is something to consider. I know you mentioned she had anger issues, if it continues get her into therapy or a kids group that deals with this. As what happened with TxMom when her D was choking and her H did not pick up phone, it is unfortunate because they are in that MLC fog and we cannot depend on them. As hard as that is to understand and how angry it makes us -- they are not capable of being responsible with their M or their kids. So by fighting with H only compounded your own pain by his inability. Your right you do need a break -- absolutely. is there someone who can take her overnite (family member or friend), and then do something for yourself. Let H wallow in his own guilt. You are the one who has to decide if you are done. It is our choice when it comes down to it. You know noone here will judge you. That is why this board is such good support. I know how terrible I feel when I got that down. I was so depressed for a few days I didn't think I could go any lower. But I did come out of it...and guess what it was because most of my support was from all of you. Let us know what you need. You know we all understand what you are going through. You are in my prayers for peace and serenity. take care.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
