Hi seaglass, Good to hear you are seeing a C. They can really help you plant your feet on the ground again.
Knowing that the end is coming or not knowing anything at all.
I say it really depends on what point you are at & how much you have detached. (Have you read the detaching threads?) For me I hate the silence. (I guess I see it as cowardly in some ways). Just trying to be friends w/my H has been a struggle. Last winter I did go silent for 63 days. That was really for me & to get myself in the correct state of mind of not hurting to much. It was very difficult & I was very depressed. But I knew for myself & sanity that I had to push through those feeeling & to feel them .... no matter how hard it was. You'll be ok .. just stay cool & keep your chin up
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)