First off, I try to exercise 5+ days of the week to chase away the loneliness and frustration gremlins. I've joined a few groups on meetup.com (young single professionals, foodies, etc.) to meet new people and just to eat, drink, and be merry in a pressure-free environment. BTW, I highly recommend that site! I'm also trying my hand at motorcycling (first safety classes this Sat. & Sun). All in all, just trying to keep busy by trying new things.

Like you, I'm starting to enjoy my "single" life again, but afraid that I might detach to the point where I don't want to save my M. The "greener grass" is oh-so-seductive...

And the attractive women here in SoCal really aren't really helping me DB effectively as they are starting to be a real distraction ;\)


- Me = 32 y/o
- WAW = 32 y/o
- M = 2.5 yrs, T = 12.5 yrs
- No kids
- Bomb, WAW moved out, D filed = 8/15/08

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