I have felt the same way as you have in the past. The bottom line is we have been hit pretty hard in the past and in order to mend properly we need to feel that we are our spouse's number one priority or at least be the #1 priority once in a while. I know I told my W this on several occasions.....unfortunatelly, we can not force them. In times like this, I would say to myself, go back a few years....if W acted this way, would you even notice. That got me throgh a couple of nights but in my case you know that my intuition was correct. All our WASs are different but I anticipated much more. Sooooooo what am I getting at? Do not get down on yourself you may have reacted a little....however, your H should be trying a little harder to prioritize your R in my humble opinion.
