Hi keyzblew,

I had also done over the phone DB back in 2000, 2001, meaby I can send you my info privetly so you can research it. Regarding your question I have been going to a group therapy, 3 of us plus the therapist one time per week for the past 7 yrs, I also go to therapy evry 15 days,both therapist are on camp that we need to get divorced.When I went to the individual therapy the wife went with me I knew that she wanted to work on the relationship but at the time I was not, the feelings towards my wife was very negative and I was enjoying the OW.