I don't think JA thinks he is going to get custody. If he really wanted custody he would of tried to fight it in court and he didn't.
I think they must be talking about having kids even though JA has said he never wanted more kids. Hey, he is in a MLC, right? So who knows?
Speaking of JA, he came on Wednesday to get the boys. He told me that S4 seems upset that the house is up for sale and told me not to mention the sale sign on the front lawn anymore. (huh?) And also that I didn't need to tell him what it was for.
I said to him "He asked me what it was, I told him. Do you expect me to keep it from him? Just one day I start packing and he asks what's up and I tell him then that we are moving out? I am not going to sugar coat and lie to him just to make you look better. He needs to know the truth."
JA: Fine then, but you can at least sound excited about the move to them.
I just ended the conversation there. He's an idiot.
Then later on while he was dropping the boys home I mentioned to him that the person who was supposed to come see the house never came. I told him that I found that annoying especially since I had to get myself and the dog out of the house for an hour so they could come.
He said "Well no one told you to get a dog". He said it very sarcastic.
So I shot back at him "well no one told you to get a divorce".
He starts yelling back that he had to get a divorce because....blah, blah, blah....
I didn't really hear him as I walked back in the house.
I don't even care that I shot that comment back. I am tired of keeping my mouth shut all the time.
He also called twice within an hour today to talk to the boys. Both times they didn't want to talk. He just called again a little while ago to speak to them but I didn't answer the phone.
He wanted to talk so much to them he shouldn't of left.
Oh, I forgot...S4 told me that he hates going to his father's house because he thinks it is very boring there. He said "there is nothing to do and all Dad likes to do is cook and eat, cook and eat, cook and eat. I don't like to eat".
He also mentioned that he hates going with his father (on Wednesdays) because he doesn't have fun.
I was surprised to hear S4 say all this. I was under the impression that they have "too much fun".
Oh, and did I mention that I spoke with my L? He said there is nothing we can do about keeping the ow from spending the night but that he is going to tell JA's lawyer to inform his client that there should be no sharing a bed with the ow and the kids.
Some help he was. I think he just wants to be done with my case and doesn't care. He isn't the one who has to live with it.
He told me that the case is closed and the judge isn't going to care. This should of been requested while we were still in progress. Dumb ass, why didn't he tell me that before?
He said that if I find out that S4 shares a bed with them again I could go to family court and I might be able to get supervised visitation.
