Well my wife never showed to bake my D b'day cake, she made it herself. This after she text me and said she would bake the cake if I bought the mix. My D was a little upset to say the least. W was here all bubbly and going through the house looking for tissue paper while I sorted my bills for filing and which ones need to be paid. She called someone while we were all at the table after having cake and said "OK I'll meet you around quarter of, I don't care wherever" Must've been making plans to go out tonight after telling me she has no money to buy cake mix.
Really frosted my ass what she did tonight, D said it was OK, like you told me, we can't depend on her for anything right now. she bought my D a couple of nice tops. She also called my older D about getting together on Sunday to see her father. My D told her to call later on and not during her lunch so they can talk. W got all defensive and my D let her have it. D also told my wife that I am taking my grandson overnight Saturday at my camp. She said to make sure he has warm clothes it willbe cold. D snapped at her saying she knows, I'm a good mother, I know how to take care of my family. Dad knows how to take care of my son, I'm not worried.
Older D has had it with her snuggling up with this idiot, younger D has just had it with her broken promises and forgetting everything. Son didn't come over because she was here. Nuff said.
Breaks my heart, she looked good, making plans to go out while I am home taking care of things. she walks around here like she lives here. I don't see how she would ever want to leave her current life. She does whatever she wants without any of the headaches. I am watching the medical and dental bills and she has been told that she will be responsible for any overages to my insurance, I am not paying them. Also, reminded her that the first of the year is coming and she needs to get health insurance or pay me $55 a week.
I wasn't the upbeat, happy go lucky guy while she was here. I did my thing sorting out my bills, while she wrapped the D presents. That means she went to the store before coming here. She got her hands on money somehow, maybe her mother I think. I was sitting at the table talking with my D and her friends, my BIL and her somewhat, but not directly. She did say bye to me, which was kind of a shock. Not sure the dark treatment caused it, but I got a bye which I usually don't get. nothing to write home about.
feel like crap, and I don't know how I feel right now, hurt, mad, angry, lost, empty or what. Feel good sorting my bills. Pile ws building up but I haven't been filing them so she may have been thinking oh-oh, no bills getting paid, he's slipping. I don't know. feel like she may have been acting all wild and happy for the D because she never showed to make the cake. My D's friend ssaid it isn''t right that her mom didn't make her cake. I would've bought one for crying out loud. I think that sucks. Feel locked in again, but I did laundry and picked up, doing filing like I said. these things need to be done and out of the way. Once I get it done I'll set a routine to take care of it. weekend plans are under way. Pisses me off seeing her happy in her life, at least when she's around me. I usually do the same around her, so touche...But still...If she says anything to my d she told me she will tell her that Dad was mad you didn't come over to make my cake like you saidf you would, Gotta love my kids....
