You know - when she stayed out late in January it ripped me apart. Now it's just a sense of resignation/sadness that I feel.
She is the quintessential conflict avoider. She will do anything to avoid a conflict even if it means lying through her teeth about everything to everyone, and avoiding interaction with anyone.
She told me OM was moving back to Eastern Europe and even left a letter to him lying around that I would find saying "good luck with the move". It turns out he is not moving from the UK at all and she invented this tale so that I "wouldn't harass him".
Incredible. Either my W has been possessed by a demon or I made a very irresponsible decision marrying her. My family always thought she was a little odd; she is extremely private and quiet and opens up to virtually no one except me. Even OM said this (not that I care).
Well, I am done with her unless she is prepared to meet my conditions for restoring the M.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
