Hi Hope4us - I absolutely agree with wht you did in your situation. If I was still in the A, if I was still contacting him etc or even if I was refusing to work on marriage, I could understand H exposing.

But none of that is what is happening here. Much more to lose for all I think. I believe it is ego driven and not much forwarding thinking either.

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OM gets to F my wife and now there he is in his perfect little marriage and his W doesn't know and I want him to feel some of the pain that I'm feeling.


What makes my H mad is ... OMW had an A 10 years ago and OM suffered and never healed from it BUT marriage stayed in tact although unhealthy. My H is mad because OM was his friend and he understood the pain he was going to be putting H through if
A was discovered - which we know was.

So he wants OM now to know that OM and I no longer share the secret about extent of A and that he H as a little respect back.