ESKY - hope you had a nice time away. have missed your posts.
I feel that there is nothing to be gained by H confronting OM except his eggo might feel a litle better. But the devastion that will follow will me immense I believe.
I have given H no opinion one way or the other on this issue. When he speaks about it i listen. He has mentioned the hurt it would cuse me. This is enough for me to keep silent. He understands the consequences.
Let us hope it is not the final straw for me.
H no longer sees a C . He feels he is cured. He has learnt to listen to his feelings for the first time in his life. Trouble i ee and something his C never pointed out , his feelings are possibly being tinted by negative thoughts , anger nd hurt. Personally I dont feel that he is in a right place to act on feelings alone.