and would kick her to the street if she cheated again.
I don't believe that one for a minute. I believe that's your intention and you'd like to think you would. But I don't believe you would. I know this because I used to think it too. And until you are faced with something, you really don't know what you will do or what you'd put up with. I'm sure you originally believed you'd NEVER put up with cheating in the first place. None of us know what we'd do until we actually are faced with the situation.
I personally believe it's best for you to stay with her and raise your own child no matter how bad you eventually feel about the realtionship and how many times she cheats.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
