Just read something very interesting (and timely) on Dana's thread in Surviving:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1622668&page=0&fpart=1

Quote:
He was my husband. I love him. I can't have a life or relationship with him, which means I do not want contact. It just makes me question myself. It reminds me of so much hurt. I want to move on and make new memories and a new life. I want to be happy and I am defining that and making it happen.

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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