I don't know why it has to be shared with everyone.
That is what will happen once OMW finds out. She is not a forward thinker.
Anyway I have another dilemma:
This BBQ coming up on sunday. The facts are:
1.It is the end of fishing thing held at Hs brothers house. all our friends will be there. 2.H has mentioned that he feels a little uncomfortable with me around our friends. 3. I have told him that i will not be going unless he asks me. He understands and to date has not asked . 4. If he does ask me , do i in the best interest of Dbing NOT go. I know they suggest not accepting every invitation , but I feel invitations are so far apart, that maybe i should not say no.