You need to share with him all the ugly and mean spirited things she has said. This woman is EVIL your H needs to wise up and realize that even if things didn't work out between you and him, she should be the LAST woman on earth he'd ever date.
Something is MENTALLY WRONG with a woman who tries to hook up with a married man for YEARS like she has done. Gosh, that's such loser behavior. There are much better choices for him if things don't work out. Why settle for GARBAGE!
Is there any way you guys can move away from there, or your H change jobs? I believe he wants to be with you and loves you but she's like some ugly embarassing bad habit that's difficult to break.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
