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LL44 #1622371 10/16/08 05:50 PM
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LWB-
One minute at a time is all you can do. When you feel stronger, you can go to one hour and then one day.....


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I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
LL44 #1622387 10/16/08 05:59 PM
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lwb,

Your post made me so sad.

I am glad that the court stuff is over and I KNOW you will do well.


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength
LL44 #1622410 10/16/08 06:25 PM
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((((((((((((((((LWB)))))))))))))))))

You will know what you are ready for and when.
Live for you and your sweet D's.
Take care

JAK


You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
JAK58 #1622422 10/16/08 06:42 PM
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(((((Lwb)))))

Your post made me choke up as I read it. I know it hurts, dear one -- how could it not? But if this is what must be then now marks the first step to putting it all behind you.

As for the court's reference to "Minor children" -- Ugh! Indeed!!!
---> I have major children, thank you very much!


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.
NoCodeBlues #1622431 10/16/08 06:49 PM
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Major children indeed!!!

Thank you nocode for bringing a smile to my face today. lol

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Ohh.. lwb.. I second all that everyone else has said... So sad for you \:\(

My fear is that I will just sob through the whole thing in front of the judge..

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(((((LWB)))))

You are so amazing,so full of grace, kindness, and courage. I'm wishing you the best my dear friend. You deserve it. I know happiness will smile on you soon.

Yoyo




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon


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Thought about you, today. Big H4H Bear hugs to you, lwb.

Same here. Your post made me choke up at work. I caught a possible glimpse of my future in ya'll.

Be good to yourself.


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."



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oh honey ((((((Lwb))))) your post upset me so \:\(

You are such a wonderful woman and a great mom. I know you will be ok, its just so hard, I can't imagine. I wish things had been different, but this is your path and I think great things will be to come.

XXXXOOOOOOO

Tal


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H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
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porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

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I am really sorry. I think it is harder when both of you care so clearly for each other, but sometimes the troubles have to be put to rest so that you can move forward. It does get easier. Sad but nice when you don't have to have someone to remind you to breathe. Hugs.

kat


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S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
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