Thats great Julia! I can imagine that even though you got a compliment like that, it kind of feels empty, as its not coming from the person you most wish. I understand.

As for the interaction with your H... he does sound very into his job and very busy. I thought it was interesting he moaned about that colleague. I wondered, do you know at all if he is actually seeing anyone? Do you have any mutual friends that could tell you? (if you wanted to know).

So he nearly complimented you - what on? Thats good. But has he replied to your email yet, and did he mention that? I've lost track.

Ali x


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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