Marisol, just read your post and I don't know how to respond. First, I think I would do the same since my H has not touched me for about 5 months and I have not come into that situation at all.
I think it might have frightened your H because he probably never saw it coming and just reacted and this might make him doubting himself about his new R with OW. Amazing they want to be "faithful" to the OW. H will probably avoid you for a bit. I would suggest now to "let it go" next time when you see him because he would expect for you to keep mentioning it and you can do a 180 and totally ignore it and I think it would have a bigger impact that he did not "rock your world" and come begging.
The vindictive side of me would post to the OW facebook and let her know that you were intimate with YOUR H but that might drive your H away more when he finds out about it. That is only an evil thought and not to be acted on~
T&L -- what do you think you always have the best advice.
I have been pretty good detaching. H called me today at work about 9:30 and I did not call him back till noon. He was home sick said he has been taking something Pm to sleep and he was up all night sick. I said I was feeling lousy also because I was a bit hungover and did not get home till late. (I didn't drink at all and was home 9:30)...dead silence on the phone. Then I asked if he needed soup or wanted anything dropped off and our D could run it to him and he said no. So I said "Gotta go -- I really hope you feel better" and hung up. This is a man who never calls in sick... Dont know what is going on with him. this stuff is tough.
Been reading surviving an affair. Very interesting -- half way through.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
