There are several reasons why he may be acting this way.
He MAY see you as the loving wife, and not the martyr, lunatic, whatever he WANTS you to be to justify him leaving. That would be frustrating.
MAYBE he sees you GAL, and is concerned that you are able to live without him.
MAYBE the grass wasn't as green as he thought it was going to be, and he's frustrated.
HOPEFULLY, you'll find out in counseling what's on his mind. UNTIL THEN, ignore it. Act like you don't even notice. Asking him will get you no where, and will likely make him angry.
He does need to see you GAL though. So, make sure the next time he sees you, you happen to be on your way out the door to...(dance lessons, yoga, drinks with friends, chick flick night, wine tasting...). Cleavage and heels will always leave a man wondering.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
