Now what???

[needlove]

So I've filed and the paperwork is going through. My question is: NOW WHAT??

He doesn't love me, that bomb was dropped last Easter. After a year and a half of dbing and trying to make this marriage work, I'm left with doing something I didn't EVER want to do. Final straw came when he left our D6 with 4 teenagers (2 were her half-brothers) in the house while he went out to a club with his friends.

So I ask you all who have been in this sitch, What happens now? Pitfalls? Peaks? Valleys? What am I to expect?

How do you handle the guilt of taking someone's father away? I figure we will be enrolled in family counselling soon, but I think it will be just her and I. He has rejected any type of therapy so far.