Thank you all for your support. I guess filing was the easy part. It was just filling out some paperwork and writing a big check. Living in the same house with him after he gets served is going to be harder. Since there is no abuse the lawyer says he can stay for up to 40 days.
I guess here my goal would be to make sure I remain polite. He wrote me a check for his 1/2 of the mortgage yesterday and wrote "Rent" on it.
Me 35 H 41 M 10 years Together 12 years D,6 SS, 17,19