I am at the point where I appear to be doing the after LRT. Am I moving too fast, should I keep some level of communication from me at this point in time or leave it up to her solely? The reason I am asking is that the book refers to communication at a very high level, if I am too dark, then I am gone before I start. I am just getting confused because I think I am moving too fast. We will be together tonite and I will be my cordial self, laughing and joking and being me. But i may not see her again until thanksgiving, end to doubt it as she is always at my house for one thing or another. i was thinking of avoiding her when she is there, but I am redirecting my thoughts to "if she is there and I am there then the contact is initiated by her and I should respond with my new charming self". I was thinking of driving around until she left, totally dark, but it doesn' sound favorable to my situation. AmyC, Sandi, karlah, tgone, any thoughts....
