1. No email. That's a precious bit of info spread only to those I vet throughly.

2. I have no clue how to locate your old thread. If you could provide your old user name, that would be helpful to anyone willing to jump in here.

3. Not all marriages may be worth saving. But that is not a decision I have to make now, it is yours. Keep posting and be transparent as possible here with others so they can really provide you with support.

Are you seeing a C or a T or have you read DR or DB? I suggest you start there. Again, what are your goals?