This whole process is really interesting. Prior to the divorce going final, I went a few months where I did not think about this stuff at all. I felt completely detached, free and happpy.
I guess now that I have stepped up, finalized the divorce, calmed things down with the ex, the reality of the situation has really started to sink in. It's not like I want to be married to my ex, just feel like I am in some sort of limbo.
The other issue I am dealing with is that I must continue to crash with a friend because my house has not sold. Once that happens it will be a huge burden off my shoulders and I will be debt free!!!
