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MWG, Thanks. Yes, I agree I have to be careful, which is why I don't want to be anywhere near him if I can help it. Even my dog isn't going to protect me because she loves him.

I think he can be good at flirting with women, or maybe he's going through MLC now.


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PH,

Thank you for posting to my thread!! I really appreciate.

I am concerned about your neighbor, that doesn't sound right to me. I'm so glad you are taking a different route with your dog. I wouldn't go back by him again & if he asked just tell him how you feel.

You are a wonderful person & I'm like you, I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but you have to protect yourself!

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I have never liked it when people strayed from a marriage. It has always sat poorly with me and I have no respect for people who ignore their vows, for any reason.

After this has happened to me, I have such a difficult time when people I know are cheating on their spouse.

This neighbor is a poor excuse for a man.


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Hi nlt, Thanks for your kind words, and for the support. You're right about protecting ourselves in this situation.


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MMF,
Thanks for backing me up as well. It seems that people don't respect moral principles, and perhaps have re-defined what morality means.


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I just remembered that I had a few dreams last night. One of them was a nightmare where I was learning and trying to ward off some evil spirit! A second one was about a friend's wedding and she was soooo nervous and uptight. A third was about an old relationship.

It was strange especially becasue I haven't been aware of any dreams the past 2 weeks or so....


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Quote:

A third was about an old relationship.


You keep your dirty dreams to yourself \:\)


My wife use to have nightmares all the time. She would dream things like someone was standing behind the door with a knife. I use to like that she would cuddle up with me after she had those dreams though.

I rarely dream but when I do, they are always strange. When I was a little kid I had a dream that the cast of Dallas (the TV show) was trying to kill my mother. It must have really bothered me because I still remember that dream 30 years later.


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Stopping by to say hi PH. Sorry you are having issues with the creepy neighbor. It always amazes me how some can be so bold and unwelcoming and really don't care who they offend.

Any news on your h? Thanks for stopping by my thread and reminding me of the love and respect. That is so important. Sometimes I just let the anger get the best of me. Definitely not my best side!


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Ima,
I used to have nightmares all the time too. I would wake myself and H up whimpering or crying and H would hold me and comfort me. That was always a silver lining to having nightmares. I remember once even after the bomb he did that. I got stalked in my dreams a lot, sometimes by dangerous animals, usually by mystery people with nasty weapons. I haven't awakened from so many nightmares lately, but I think it is because my waking life is a nightmare now.

PH, how are you doing?

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Imageer, Hmmm - I didn't even imply it was a dirty dream and as far as I remember, it wasn't. \:\)

It is weird that we dream certain dreams. I know I have dreamt certain dreams repeatedly over time too.

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