Need some advice. D birthday as well as d'in laws. Wife had me pick up cake mix to ake a cake, she says se has no money. she knew about the birthdys last week when she got paid. She says my D wanted money for her b'day. she has not asked for me to get a card for either or asked if I should have her name on my cards. I am thinking I will not put her name on the cards as she should have put money aside to get them gifts or cards last week. she even mentioned to me last week that she has to get something for their b'days this week. Am I being to picky?