Cinders, I have followed your situation for nearly two years now and I can say that (IMO, of course), of all people, your H would be devastated if you were dating.
I can say with almost certainty that you are very right about this !
Same here!!
My sons form tutor turned up at a sports event with his son (not with us, it was a coincidence) we chatted etc. My son told his dad that the form tutor was at the event talking to mum and my H nearly blew a gasket.
I have had 2 really 'sweet' e-mails off him totay trying to find out if this is my new love interest.
pity I have been too busy to reply!!
Nutty x
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.