Hope4us struggle, part 9 or 10 or whatever

[Hope4us]

Haven't posted for a few days so I thought I'd update.

Things continue to be good at home. W is engaging more and more. Could she be in a serious defogging mode? I believe so. More and more stuff every day shows me the alien has left the building. Don't get me wrong, the alien is still there, but it's getting better.

Last night W was doing some serious cleaning. We leave for Florida on Saturday morning and my mom is coming to stay with S16 while we're gone. My mom would kill herself cleaning our house if it wasn't spotless when she gets here so we're spending a couple nights making the house worthy of my mom, LOL.

So anyway, W comes downstairs just as the debate is starting and says she feels like a plumber because her pants had fallen so far down in the back. I said to her "Ha! I always thought S16 got that from me, but I guess it was you!" And to that she turned around, pulled up her shirt and showed me half of her a** that was hanging out of her pants! OMG, I about blew a gasket. That's the first a** I've seen in probably a year.

And she's been making more sexual jokes with me. If I didn't know better I'd say she's flirting with me.

One other thing (this one is for Puppy), I think she's trying her best to be transparent with me. I was on the way to a Dr. appointment this morning and she sent me a text message telling me she was going out to lunch with a friend of hers from our hometown. Now she didn't have to tell me that. She could have waited until she got home, but she also knows that I can see her status on line at work and when she used to go to lunch with OM I would ask how lunch was and she would lie about it. So I think she was thinking that if I saw she was offline for an hour or so at lunch time I would be worried so she told me up front where she was going. And it feels good for her to think of me that way.

So now I'm home, starting vacation, and doing some laundry and sweeping so she doesn't have to kill herself tonight. I'm not going to kill all her list because like I mentioned before, I think she felt like she wasn't contributing to the household when I did everything so I'm going to leave her about half the list to do when she gets home.

I'll probably post one more update before we leave.

Talk to ya later peeps!