Yes, everything is fine now. The school called yesterday to tell me S5 was in the nurses office b/c he bit his tongue doing a frog leap. When I picked him up there was blood all over his shirt, so it was a pretty good one.
I got a call last night, with him screaming in the background, that he jumped off the monkey bars after soccer practice & bit the same spot again.
He's fine, his tongue is pretty beaten up though.
When H arrived yesterday evening to P/U S for soccer, as he was parking, a guy he competes against that lives in another state was driving by & spotted him. When he came in, he was telling me the small world type thing & said he told him, "That's my house, right there." Acted like my H used to pre-fog & the signing wasn't discussed or mentioned.
I have some ideas about why, but really they don't mean much at this point.
The basic's are still the same for me.....no contact except re the kids until there's a solid, real attempt on his part. There will be no "jumping" at little signs that he may be changing his mind.
He is playing with fire here, as I have come to the place where I will move on if he doesn't choose to step up to the plate.
Until then, I'm just really grateful for all the incredible blessings in my life, there are a ton of them.
