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morning LE, you build it I will come for sure! hey can we add in a sports bar too lol? one with lots of tvs so we can see all the games? I will find some cutie girls to work there lol!

thought I would share this with you, I got it this morning in my email

Today's thought from Hazelden is:

Becoming forgiving

The lack of a forgiving spirit hurts our spiritual progress. Being unforgiving causes resentment, which is always a danger to our new way of life.

We have learned that if we forgive, we will be forgiven; but if we do not forgive, we will not be forgiven. So it seems we are just hurting ourselves by not forgiving others.

Am I forgiving?

God, help me forgive each person I need to forgive today.


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I saw something this morning from DC talking about forgiveness taking time. I think it just sort of happens and you are able to look back and realize that you have let go of all the hurt that the other person caused. I do believe the sooner, the better, but it can be really hard. After all we are human.

Be strong Bg, I know you had a rough day and night. Today is going to be better and everyday from here on out will be better than the one before.


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sharing this with you buddy!Thursday, October 16, 2008

Don't Lose This Moment

Don't lose this moment. Don't miss the opportunity to fill this moment right now with joy and love, because you are worrying about what will happen next. Don't miss the chance to take action right now, because you are thinking about yesterday's missed opportunities.

Are you confused about where your life is heading? Then take action right now. In this very moment, there are things right in front of you that you can do, to make your body healthier, to make your home more beautiful, to make your relationships more loving, or to move your business or career forward.

Don't miss this moment. It will never come again, exactly like this, exactly as you are and as it is, with the people that are in it right now.



No matter what happened yesterday and no matter what is going to happen tomorrow, right now, there is peace and love inside you, waiting to be expressed, waiting to be given form in your life. Don't miss the chance to create a wonderful moment, right now.


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Had to e-mail W to get a password reset on paying a credit card. She e-mails me back to ask invite me to come down for Homecoming parade and to have dinner with her and the kids. I didn't respond. I have DivorceCare and other plans anyway, so I really couldn't make it. I just find it frustrating that she does this sort of crap.


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so sorry friend, I have to go watch D13 volleyball, see the EXH and the jerk H. wanna trade lol?

hope your divorcecare group goes good.


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LE...they know. Somehow they know when we are pulling away. Do you think they have their own support network...WAS's Unite? That's where they learn the script and just how long to wait between contacts and between invites and just what to say to make sure we don't actually move on too far!

You did well by not responding. You'll see the kids tomorrow. Enjoy DC tonight.

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Well, I actually did respond. Just said, "Thanks, I have my usual Thursday night activities. Kids don't need to call me, I'll just see them tomorrow." Left it at that. Nice and detached. I don't want her throwing it back in my face that I don't ever respond when it is something about the kids.


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LE..I thought you were going to build a commune (ahem..sorry community) for all of us..not just for guys \:\)

Amy..thank you for actually making me laugh out loud, I certainly don't do that very much, about the "do they have a WAS Unite where they pass out the script they use"..it certainly seems like it doesn't it?

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I started out to be an apartment complex for guys, but quickly was reformulated into buying an entire neighborhood of foreclosed homes in Arizona. DB Estates. I agree on the WAS Union. More like a mass alien abduction.


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Originally Posted By: Little Engine
I have my usual Thursday night activities


No no no.... sounds too boring and predictable. Next time. "Thanks, but I have plans..."


There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
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