Hope-don't worry about the cell phone. You can't do anything about it anyway. I know my H has been texting me more too. I would take Billy Joel's advice. Last year when the first Bomb, H told me that loving me isn't the problem. He has always been able to love me. He also told his father this. And he told me this year as well. He admits he has always stayed in the past because he loves me. So take it for what it is. That he does love you and he does know it somewhere inside of himself.
Have fun tonight. Don't worry too much if he goes to pub. He isn't there yet. I know it is easier said than done.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.